Spontaneous Impressions

So this i a totally new concept for me. I had never heard of dating sites soley focused of finding your big and beautiful partner. Granted i’ve tried dating sites before, and have a mixture of results (though no long term success). I stopped my online dating about 3 or 4 months ago after a week long influx of interesting messages. Though there’ve been much worse i’ve expereinced I got sick of the many “hey baby”s, “you want to f*ck”, and the very rare “I’ll die in my country will you marry me for immigration purposes”.

I view myself like the next single lady does. Searching for that man to compliment her life, make her feel nice, and knows how to treat a women. I have met many men who… let’s face it just have no clue on how to approach a lady anymore. I think i’ve blogged about this before so i won’t get back into it.

So today I’m offically back into the online dating world, but in a new way. I’m trying the Big and Beautiful Dating world. At first i was slightly offended when the concept was introduced to me. What do you mean, now we’re being seperated on the online world just to find a man, and have a new obstacle in our way… Men with big girl fetishes, men seeking fat women with the bias that we’ll roll over and take their shit because “big girls will take what they can get”. This was my very opinionated first impressed. I didn’t want to be placed at the mercy of an endless messages about me being some person’s sex figure (although complimentary yes, I want to be loved for me, and not my body), I didn’t want someone assuming just because of my size i have self-esteem issues, or that i put up with bullshit.

Let’s face it. I’m a very independant, workaholic women, who doesn’t take shit lying down. Especially from the men who would like to be in my life. Call me picky, but I think this is a great feature of mine. I don’t settle. I get what I want. So what if i’ve been single for a while. I’m not seeking a man to complete me, I’m seeking a man to compliment me.

I’m sure many of you other single fat ladies out there feel the same way. And it’s not too much to ask for.

With that said I’m delving into this new experience and I’ll let you know what i think of it…

By the way, have any of you tried it? What did you find out about it, you like it? not like it?, Share your online fat dating site stories!!